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Psychology Today recently published a series of articles on the similarities and differences between people with borderline personality disorder vs those with narcissistic personality disorder:
- Part 1: What Have You Done for Me Lately? Entitlement: A Key Narcissistic Trait
- Part 2: Pay Attention to Me! When Is It Borderline Disorder?
- Part 3: Feelings of Emptiness: Not Just a Borderline Trait Anymore
- Part 4a: What Borderlines and Narcissists Fear Most: Part A
- Part 4b: What Borderlines and Narcissists Fear Most: Part B
- Part 5: You're So Vain: Narcissistic "Grandiosity" and What it Means to You
- Part 6: Blame-Storms and Rage Attacks Common to Borderlines, Narcissists
(Interestingly enough, it was my posting a Twitter link to an article about emotional abuse in a scientific journal which led my N-parent to threaten me with a lawsuit. We'll see what threats ensue after this post. LOL.)